Nissues

Just like a passing year and a happy new year nissues come and go, even if the nissue itself changes, nissue-related situations are unavoidable. Understanding this simple fact seems to be key in having inner peace, at least for myself. My current situation is a live-in nissue that’s generally not a source of much problems. Most of the time it’s just a constant nagging ’bout ourder and neatness, which needless to say I’m not the biggest fan. So usually when the whining starts my brain goes thru what I like to call a “Moses peace effect” in which the layers of my brain split into a canal like the miracle at the sea and then every word coming out of her mouth just goes thru from one ear to the other, without actually causing even 1 synapse in my brain, therefore releiving my of harmfull mental stress. This is a technique I mastered during high school both for nissues and class.

And when the bitching is about to get nasty, a.k.a P.M.S. this M.A.N. goes M.I.A to fish for the weekend. AAAAHHH! yes fishing is peace. Don’t get me wrong, I do know when to put my foot down, or call when the buck stops here, but I usually reserve that for something that really bothers me and that has and actual, real meaning to it, and thankfully haven’t had to use it more than twice.

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Time, time, time… How much problems because of time. Some couples seem to be slaves of time and their relationship ends up forcing themselves to modify their own schedules. Don’t get me wrong, I know that a healthy relationship is the one in which both persons spend time with each other, but the nissue here is when, as individuals they want to do things separate, i.e. the man wants to go for a poker night and the woman wants to go on a “Only girls night out”, as far as I can see, that is perfectly normal and as a matter of fact healthy because it keeps the individuality within the relationship.

I think of relationships as 2 individuals that join because of mutual agreement to spend time and many of life’s most pleasant moments together, rather than 2 individuals trying to merge into 1.

Nissues are any kind of problem or dispute between a couple, it doesn’t have to be a big fight, not even something that has been talked about i.e. that feeling you get when you are talking to your girlfriend on the phone and you say ” OK Bye I’ll talk to you later “, but instead of hanging up she keeps talking about anything or everything, and when you tell her again that you need to hang up the phone and she gets upset, in that exact moment is when a nissue is born.
There are all kinds of nissues, really simple ones, and literally deadly ones.
Let’s hope that our readers will find this blog usefull when dealing with their nissues, sometimes the solution of a nissue is very simple, but you find yourself so deep within the problem that you don’t find that solution maybe a neutral, objective place like this one will help you.